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Thursday, 14 August 2008 16:02 |
How many times have you considered the following thought but instead choose to say nothing, “I would really like it if you would _________ (insert sex act)? When it comes down to sex, most men and women seal their lips and hold their desires to themselves. Yet it is a known fact among the general population that a healthily sexual relationship is dependent on clear communication between partners. So, what is it that drives the sexual silence endured by so many couples: the complacency of a relationship’s routine, the fear of embarrassment, concerns over judgment, anxiety over hurting or offending a loved one? Give yourself permission to ask for what you want and watch your relationship flourish.
Donald S. Strassberg, a professor of psychology at the University of Utah who specializes in relationship and sexual therapy, speculates on the inadequacies of most couple’s sexual discourse, “Much of sex therapy really turns out to be sex education and communication training. Many people come in and the plumbing works fine, but they’re people who either have not figured out what they really want, or have yet to communicate it to each other … I have worked with couples married for decades, produced kids and grandkids, talked to each other about almost everything one could imagine, but never talked about sex.” Consider this; have you completely informed your partner just how you like it? Or how you want it tonight? And if there are corrections to be made or subtle changes to be adopted are you just laying there and saying nothing? It is a complete disservice to all parties involved.
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 14 August 2008 17:07 )
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Written by eve
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Thursday, 24 July 2008 09:25 |
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Get It? SAFE ... Sex
First and foremost, male condoms help prevent sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). But equally as important, condoms prevent against unplanned pregnancy when used consistently and correctly. Their effectiveness rate ranges from 85-98% and condoms are currently the only effective and reversible birth control method for men. The key is to know how to use them. And for some, learning how to put on a condom correctly may cause great anxiety.
Use a condom every time you have sexual intercourse, oral sex, or anal sex. This means you have to be prepared and actually purchase the condoms anticipating their future use. Buy latex condoms. If relying on condoms on hand verify that the expiration date is still valid and never store condoms in the heat, which may weaken the strength of the rubber or latex (this means no condoms in the glove compartment, gentlemen). Of course, keep the condom in its wrapper prior to use.
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 24 July 2008 11:34 )
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Monday, 21 July 2008 22:12 |
This has to be one of the best singles ads ever printed. It is reported to have been listed in the Atlanta Journal.
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Last Updated ( Monday, 21 July 2008 22:31 )
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Written by eve
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Wednesday, 02 July 2008 13:02 |
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A recent CDC study finds that one in four teenage girls, females between the age of 14 and 19, has a sexually transmitted disease; in other words, 3.2 million teenage girls is infected with at least one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases (HPV, Chlamydia, herpes simplex virus, and trichomoniasis). These numbers are staggering and honestly mind-blowing. One in four? This comprehensive study besides providing a clear picture of the overall STD picture facing adolescent women in the United States illustrates the need for education and proactive measures. Kevin Fenton, M.D., director of the CDC’s National Center for HIV/AIDS, Viral Hepatitis, STD and TB Prevention, stresses the immediacy of the situation when he said that “Given that the health effects of STDs for women- from infertility to cervical cancer are particularly severe, STD screening, vaccination and other prevention strategies for sexually active women are among our highest public health priorities.”
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Last Updated ( Wednesday, 02 July 2008 13:46 )
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Written by eve
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Monday, 16 June 2008 15:48 |
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Got Time for Sex?
If one is completely satisfied sexually does the length of time involved in the act of sex matter? The topic is easily debatable and can be a touchy subject. No man wants to short the clock and not too many women are looking for a sex marathon. What side of the bed are you sticking to: performance or endurance?
The delicate subject matters always lead to the highly sensitive exchange concerning the average copulation time for a couple. According to a recent survey of sex therapists, the optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was between 3 and 13 minutes. Talk about a huge window of opportunity. These findings, which were posted in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, conclude that endurance is the key to a fulfilling sex life. And when is comes to discussing time, there appears to be many factors. The above time allotment does not include foreplay nor does it include sexual activity which lasted under two minutes (of course, it doesn’t). The cited study added that a comparison of over 1,500 couples, including women armed with stop watches, found that on average sexual intercourse lasted 7.3 minutes. Time and its relationship with sex are so subjective. How aroused one was feeling prior to beginning the act, what was the extent of foreplay, the day’s stresses and how much lingerie was involved are all crucial elements (not to mention the level of cologne a man is wearing)?
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