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Written by eve
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Monday, 16 June 2008 15:48 |

Got Time for Sex?
If one is completely satisfied sexually does the length of time involved in the act of sex matter? The topic is easily debatable and can be a touchy subject. No man wants to short the clock and not too many women are looking for a sex marathon. What side of the bed are you sticking to: performance or endurance?
The delicate subject matters always lead to the highly sensitive exchange concerning the average copulation time for a couple. According to a recent survey of sex therapists, the optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was between 3 and 13 minutes. Talk about a huge window of opportunity. These findings, which were posted in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, conclude that endurance is the key to a fulfilling sex life. And when is comes to discussing time, there appears to be many factors. The above time allotment does not include foreplay nor does it include sexual activity which lasted under two minutes (of course, it doesn’t). The cited study added that a comparison of over 1,500 couples, including women armed with stop watches, found that on average sexual intercourse lasted 7.3 minutes. Time and its relationship with sex are so subjective. How aroused one was feeling prior to beginning the act, what was the extent of foreplay, the day’s stresses and how much lingerie was involved are all crucial elements (not to mention the level of cologne a man is wearing)?
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I don’t think the amount of time involved really matters when it comes to sex It all boils down to satisfaction and if my man can get me off in 30 seconds and all is well with his universe of needs then what does it matter what the stop watch registers? This isn’t a race, just moments of immeasurable pleasure. I about to get a little crazy here in my thinking pattern but I would venture to say that although every man wants to satisfy the needs of his woman in a timely manner, there is no harm in lasting a little longer for “seconds”? I want to make one final point about sex. Orgasms are wonderful occurrences and as much as all participants fully desire them each and every time, it is not necessary. It is important to enjoy the moment for what it is and if it happens great and if it doesn’t there is always next time. That’s the best part about sex, practice always makes it better. And I also have plenty of time for practice.
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Last Updated ( Monday, 16 June 2008 16:41 )
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